I was able to get 5.1 from Netflix on the PS4 Pro. It looks like Disney Plus is 5.1 Atmos for some movies but obviously not supported with my equipment, so I get only 2-channel there as well...

As Jamie said it is frustrating (and disappointing).

Theater: 861v4_LPS, 818v3, HD621, Oppo 203, Lumagen Pro, DSP8000SE, DSP5500C, SW1600x2, DSP5500, Epson 6040UB, PS4
Living room: 861v4_LPS, HD621, DSP8000SE, DSP5200C, Oppo 203, Lumagen 2143, 818v3, Sooloos/MC600 Bluesound Node
Bedroom: M80
office: G68D, DSP6000
Garage: DSP5000
Storage: M33s, DSP33s, DSP5k, 501, 518, M1500, G98DH, SW1600