There is an excellent article in this month’s Trinnov newsletter that just came out entitled “ Calibration is a Conversation, Not a Preset”.
It states in part how subjective sound is and how vital an experienced calibrator can be along with all the things involved besides just measurements in getting great sound. It states much better than I did in my post on avsforum what I was trying to say.
Sorry not sure how to include a link to the article but it is a very good read.

My gear: Trinnov CI, 271, 8000.1(SEs), 7200.1 HC (SE), 320s, 3200s, Seaton F18 subs, MS200 (2nd zone), 218, 210.
Other: JVC RS-4100 projector, Lumagen Pro Radiance, Panamorph DCR anamorphic lens, Stewart G4 130 screen, Kaleidescape Strato K, Rvolution 4K player and Zapitti NAS, Oppo BDP-203,Roon Nucleus